Letting go of Milford
It finally hit me last Monday. I am no longer the New Haven
Register's Milford reporter, a city I’ve covered for the past almost 13 years.
In mid-April I was named the New Haven Register’s Metro
Editor, which means I supervise coverage of Milford and the Valley and Amity
towns.
I was essentially performing both jobs for about
the last six weeks because I didn’t have someone to replace me as of yet.
That all changed recently. Two weeks new Milford reporter,
Rich Scinto, began. We drove out to Milford last Monday morning and our first
stop was City Hall. I introduced Rich to Mayor Blake as my replacement, and as I
uttered those words it started to sink in.
We went across the street and met Superintendent of Schools
Elizabeth Feser, and again I introduced Rich as my replacement. By then it had
sunk in.
It’s still strange. There was a Board of Aldermen meeting last
Monday, and I didn’t attend, which is something I haven’t been able to say much
over the past decade.
Letting go can be hard. I love Milford, and I am so glad to
be involved in the day-to-day coverage. I know I will still be writing a little
as well, and have a presence on the Milford Matters blog, and the blog has only gotten better since Rich came on board.
Letting go is made much easier when the person, who is
replacing you is as talented as Rich. He’s proven in two weeks to be a tireless
worker, who is committed to telling a balanced story in an honest and
straightforward manner.
He also has skills that I am a little in awe of. He created
an infographic on this blog, and a Google map of all the places in the U.S.
that are also named Milford.
The last 13 years have been a wild ride for me both
personally and professionally. I quit smoking cigarettes six years ago. I wore
the patch for two weeks and never smoked again!
Most of the people that I’ve known in Milford a long
time including Jack Fowler, Jim Richetelli, Rich Smith, Kevin McGrath, Kathy
Bonetti, Linda Michel, and so many others knew of my battle with the bulge.
Over the past six years I was able to lose more than 200
pounds the old fashion way, which truly changed my life for the better. It opened so many doors for me and led me to
get married just over two years ago to my wife, Sarah.
I have a lot to be thankful for, and have been blessed to
work with so many great people in the New Haven Register’s Milford Bureau including
great courts and police reporters including Sarah Walker, Meggan Clark, Phil
Helsel, and James Tinley. And of course I’ve made life-long friends in Chris
Rhatigan and Neal McNamara.I just want to know when Tinley is going to finally try and beat me in tennis?
The one constant through my entire 13 years covering Milford
was having the same boss, and that is City/State Editor Helen Bennett Harvey.
Everything I learned in this business is a result of her and my former Branford
Review Editor Cindy Szabo. I still laugh when I recall my early days at the Branford Review where I'd leave the leads blank because she would always change them. I needed to learn a lot.
Professionally, covering Milford has been a wild ride. I was
in the old Milford bureau on New Haven Avenue in 2001 during the terrorist
attacks, and remember being dispatched to Bridgeport on a report that burn
victims were being transported from New York to Bridgeport Hospital. It turned
out not to be true, but I just remember being consumed by a deep feeling of
despair and helplessness for what seemed the longest time.
In 2004 there was the Bobby Dulin arrest that morphed into
the Superintendent of Schools Gregory Firn controversy that resulted in the
school board buying out Firn’s contract.
More recently there was the Harvey Polansky scandal. I had positive professional relationships with both Firn and Polansky, and took no joy in how
their tenure ended in Milford.
But looking past the hot button issues that dominated
coverage the one thing that stands out to me is how nice everyone was to me.
There were definitely some tense moments, but I tried my best to be respectful
and fair to people, and they returned the favor. I was always impressed by how
Milford residents rallied to the aid of one another. I’m sure all communities
do this, but I was proud to document this time and again in Milford.
Milford is truly a special place and community.
Brian McCready
New Haven Register
Metro Editor
Twitter @nhrbmccready
Sounds like you feel about Milford the way I feel about a few towns in the Valley, Brian. ;-)
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the weight loss. I had no idea.
Best wishes, Brian. You (and Patti too) have such a way with people. It's a wonderful thing.
ReplyDeleteAnd congratulations on your new job, et al.